Try not to be four years into a relationship when it suddenly dawns on you that the guy you're with is a big, selfish jerk.

Remember always what you set out to get, and please don’t settle for less.

If you date, you will meet your share of weirdos and jerks. That is as sure as death and taxes.

If the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start ‘figuring him out,’ please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find someone that is.

big plans require big action

Sometimes we become attached to what's familiar, and sometimes we hold on to things that are safe and predictable, even if they are bad for us.

A man would rather be trampled by elephants on fire than tell you he's just not that into you.