Remember always what you set out to get, and please don’t settle for less.

Anyone who assesses you or your relationship as disposable is not worthy of your time or tears.

Try not to be four years into a relationship when it suddenly dawns on you that the guy you're with is a big, selfish jerk.

If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won’t keep you guessing, because he’ll want to make sure you don’t get frustrated and go away.

Busy' is another word for 'asshole'. 'Asshole' is another word for the guy you're dating.

It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less - even a vague pathetic facsimile of less - than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get, and please don't settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.

Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.