The time it takes to feel better about a breakup is directly proportional to the time it takes to feel better about yourself.
The one cool thing with getting older is that you can actively choose to just be an eccentric.
I have less friends, but I have more Cadbury Eggs.
If I had butterscotch pants and a cheetah sweater... I'd be just fine.
I want you to be yourself, but not with other dudes.
If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.