While I was doing shitty little bar shows in the Central Valley in 2004, I was being out and helping people realize that gay people aren't monsters, that they are just people. So I look at this world with a great deal of pride, and I'm excited for it.

The wonderful thing about a TV show is if you get picked up for another season, there's no happily ever after.

A nice thing about being 40 is that you're not a kid about your understanding of sex or sexuality anymore.

I'm just figuring out being able to understand that it's cool for me to date, and have guys be interested in me, and be interested in guys.

The person I have sex with doesn't necessarily need to have primacy in my life.

Not a lot of gay guys end up coming to alt-comedy-ish shows. They like all these '80s shimmer shows, or they like going to drag shows. It is always weird and interesting when I meet somebody at a gay bar who is familiar with my stuff.

While I was doing shitty little bar shows in the Central Valley in 2004, I was being out and helping people realize that gay people aren't monsters, that they are just people. So I look at this world with a great deal of pride, and I'm excited for it.