Why choose to fail when success is an option?

Parenting is not for sissies. You have to sacrifice and grow up

Witnessing the bond between a parent and their little ones firsthand really brought home to me how much I was missing.

If you fail to plan, you pretty much plan to fail.

Part of abandoning the all-or-nothing mentality is allowing yourself room for setbacks. We are bound to have lapses on the road to health and wellness, but it is critical that we learn how to handle small failures positively so that we can minimize their long-term destructive effects. One setback is one setback—it is not the end of the world, nor is it the end of your journey toward a better you.

You need to find your OWN purpose. I cannot BUILD desire.

Everybody needs a fan, and the support and the encouragement. We're human beings; that is an essential part of the equation. When that fan is not there and when you're in a situation that triggers you on a historical level, you behave impulsively. You can destroy years worth of work professionally, personally, in a moment of being triggered by that.