John de Ruiter Quotes

When you love what’s deeper, your response is direct. There won’t be a fear in dropping directly into the deeper.

Whatever your orientation is, it is working on everything around you.

Where you quietly know within, you have no choice.

Your being is real and it gets to have everything. It gets to have your preferences, your person, and all of your plans.

The more clean you are in awakening to your own being, the more you'll be able to move your own being toward others. Your evolution as awareness is in the purity of thatit's in the cleanness.

The cure to your self is that you are not yours.

The best that you can do for your mind is to have no in-between state in your heart.

Where your life ends, your being doesn’t. Where your being ends, you don’t. That is what is able to have and move your forms.

Your real home isn't your patterned self. It isn't your thinking. It isn't your feeling. Your real home is the deepest within that you know the truth of. Your real home, your only home, is direct knowledge.

When you move as openness and softness of heart you’re moving in this life within your self in the same way that your being is. When you move as openness and softness of heart, you are all the way into the surface moving and growing, developing as oneness.

Looking and seeing do not originate in your self. You are able to look in your self because looking and seeing are before your self.

In being meaning, you naturally find meaning in everything.

When you rest in the weakness of your heart, your being moves and your self becomes quieted.

Surrender to the deepest level within that you're aware of.

You’re not limited to your body as you’ve known your body. In the deepest levels of you being in your deepest body, there is nowhere that your body is not, and with that body you’re able to think.

The more that you bypass of your own mechanisms, the more in your self that will come apart.

When your heart is open and soft, it isn't actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything.

Love is not an experience. Love is what you are.

Awareness returning home is awareness being enfolded by what it knows.

Your deeper sense isn’t a springboard; it’s a landing place. If you draw conclusions too quickly or too slowly, you’ll establish your self where it doesn’t belong. The fine line between the two is in your own deeper sense. It is in your actual knowing within that deeper sense.

Believe only what you know and all of what you know.

For you to have real love, you need to be able to move past your self.

Prayer doesn’t work in the way that you think. If you pray for good health and it is genuine, you might be coming into sickness. The essence of good health has to do with a most delicate well-being.

You are able to come from openness and softness in an instant.

When you are relaxed and you hear what you know is the truth, regardless of your experience, you love. You love the truth. You love hearing, knowing, responding to the truth, because all of that is really you.

When you are being true to what you know in your heart, your whole heart becomes clean.

When awareness believes what it knows is true, the truth of what awareness really is, moves. That movement is love.

There’s no mystery to integrity. There’s no mystery to oneness. When there is a core-splitting honesty, right there, awareness knows.

Whatever you have awakened to, you belong to.

Let your heart believe only what nurtures you.

Your real strength within isn't the strength that you experience in your self. Your real strength within is in what you are as a being, deeper than what your self is. Your real strength is within your weakest weakness.

It's true for you to soften within, to let your heart open, to let your heart soften.

Sunny is what you are. Everything else is what you think.

You cannot dwell in your being while your self inhabits your heart.

There's a depth of meaning all on its own in awareness being gentled. From within the subtlety of being gentled, the level of perception changes. Instead of perceiving the obviousness of experience, you're able as awareness to perceive most subtle meaning.

When you move the deeper levels in you and the deeper levels in your body, you'll be relating to that mystery in her. You'll relate to it directly and you'll lay hold of it through the deeper levels in you and in your body.

When your self and your life belong to your being, your self opens, your life opens, your being comes in, and it will have everything. It is the single greatest turning point in your life.

The unfolding code of what you really are occurs every time you go to sleep.

In a real relationship the two of you are together, meeting without your histories.

When you are on your deathbed, and you look back into your life, it won’t matter to you what you have done with your life. What will matter to you is what you have done all of your life with your heart.

When you're all in, you will know sweet vulnerability.

When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling the law of containment.

The heart that is at rest grows and develops from anything.

It isn't the kind of profession that you have that makes you flourish; it's what you are coming from, within, that makes you flourish. Then everything that you step into turns into your garden.

When you are in the mundane from what is deeper than your self, you realize the mundane to be more than your self, and your self opens. It opens in its structuring and in its form, enabling you as the form of your self to move in the deeper levels of the mundane

Everyone starts out with a little self, and it costs everything to move past that little self. It costs the life of the little self to be the life within that's deeper than that little self.

Integrate the unseen of what you first are in the midst of all things seen.

When you come from your heart in the midst of your self and in your life, you’ll be like a salmon turning and going upstream. You’ll be going against the stream. You’ll be going against what your self is like. In that way, you are training your self, your conditioning and the streams of your self.