John de Ruiter Quotes

Without your entrance to greater reality in this life, greater reality has no entrance to this life. The meaning of all of this lifeisn't as it appears. The meaning of this life is for greater reality to manifest through all the forms of this life.

What touches your heart is meaning.

If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self.

Whatever you know in your heart, live at the expense of anything else.

The source of love isn’t in your self. It isn’t in your experience. It’s in you.

When resistance no longer serves you, you'll no longer have it.

The place of connection or separation in relationship to your own being, the place in your self where this occurs, is in your heart.

The known unseen within becomes structural in what is seen: a being functioning as a self, in person, in this world.

You need to bring your awakening into city life. Bring it into fast-paced complexity where it thrives.

If you move as a being in every experience of your self, your being replaces your self.

Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little bit like your own being.

As soon as there's pain, you know the gold is just beneath.

As what you first are moves in the context of form, you have real reflection within that form, real reflection of what you are, what you are being and what you are doing. The movement in form enables you to comprehend what you are.

When you are known, what you are is activated.

The emanation of what you are is love.

Your life has little purpose if you are separate from your own knowledge within.

Where there is humility, there is no story.

If you set something free and it comes back to you, that's the beginning of it being yours.

Well-being is like water moving down hill. When you block the water, the water turns into a reservoir, reservoir of well-being instead of a flow of well-being. To well-being it doesn’t make a difference.

The truth within moves as intimacy of being.

Live finding each other in what you haven’t yet found, seeing each other in a way that you haven’t yet seen, reaching within to find the more. In the more you find the more of each other.

Relate to the little instead of relating to the big. The little is indomitable.

In all of its vulnerability, profound sincerity does, in its relationship to knowledge, find its way.

Where there's self importance, there's only a very little bit of you and that little bit is distorted. It's in a holding pattern that is false to what it knows. That holding pattern forbids you, in that little bit of you, from being the rest of you.

Openness and softness of heart loves what it knows

When you are being what you really are you absolutely flourish in the midst of absolutely everything.

Where there is movement, there is reach. Reach engenders communion.

It doesn’t matter how powerfully sexuality, one with your being, moves; it’s all profound goodness. You’re safe in it. What you know in it, of its depth and its quality, is what you’re saying yes to, what you’re resting in, what you’re warmed in.

There is only one real comfort and it’s not a feeling. It is the comfort of oneness.

When your heart softens and opens, your being becomes matter in your self. That is the change of matter and what matters to you in your self will change.

You don't come into the more without responding to what you already know.

Your whole life is really only all about that dear place in you where you know you’ve realized, you love, and you are reached.

High level womanness occurs and is freed when the filters and the boundaries in your womanness are no longer of use to you. As a woman you then move as your own Being.

Let your sexuality move in whichever way it does. Do nothing to guide it or control it. What brings it into balance is you being in your heart in the midst of it.

Realization is more important than understanding

Find the most delicate qualities within; then treat these qualities as tiny little seeds that you would plant in your heart, with you being the gardener.

When you are awakened to being a being, even though you're not yet being it, the purpose of you being in a body fundamentally shifts. In that shift, you know within that you are not first any longer about your humanness. Your humanness is included and it's no longer fundamental, altering your sense of reality.

What you really are isn’t loyal to your self. It won’t favor your self. It will turn your self into what you really are.

Let everything that comes your way, help you be new.

When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.

What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through your heart, into your self.

To really evolve as awareness, be just like your own being in a self like yours and on a planet like this one.

The new ground that you form in your living is a new self, a new self that isn't at all of the middle ground, a lived-in self that has no need of middle ground. That new self makes unseen reality within seen.

When you lay down your life for what you are after you've died, you're clean.

As awareness recedes into the deep, as when it falls asleep, everything seemingly ends. All that it takes is a gentle touch to your body; meaning has moved and meaning is again aware, knowing, seeing, and if it is home, meeting and communing.

The more open you are within, the more capacity you will have to know, to see, and to love.

Your mind is like a servant to you. Whatever you are being in the midst of your mind, your mind is going to be the same to you.

The more honest you are, the more quieted you are within.