Kids on a team are like flowers in a bouquet, there is always one that wants to face a different way than the arranger desires.
Don't ask yourself what you did wrong; ask yourself what you did right.
Ethics is for people with full bellies.
Most of us are referees at heart; we like to call throws and errors on someone else.
You can be harsh on your players and still coach, but it is easier when you are kind to them.
Shared victory is a double victory, shared defeat is half-defeat.