I couldn't give a rat's tutu about your emotional distress
It's your life; live it well.
Don't try to teach a pig to sing. It doesn't work, and it annoys the pig.
If it doesn't make sense, it's usually not true.
One of the loveliest weddings I ever performed was that of a gay couple. To me if you are a good citizen, you pay your taxes, you work, you should have all the rights and responsibilities of everybody else.
If you are trying to balance the scales of justice and equality in all your work relationships, you're going to come up short.