Self-compassion - being supportive and kind to yourself, especially in the face of stress and failure - is associated with more motivation and better self-control.
Kelly McGonigalAccording to the American Psychological Association, the most effective stress-relief strategies are exercising or playing sports, praying or attending a religious service, reading, listening to music, spending time with friends or family, getting a massage, going outside of ra walk, meditating or doing yoga, and spending time with a creative hobby. The least effective strategies are gambling, shopping, smoking, drinking, eating, playing video games, surfing the Internet, and watching TV or movies for more than two hours.
Kelly McGonigalWe wrongly but persistently expect to make different decisions tomorrow than we do today
Kelly McGonigalWhen your mind is preoccupied, your impulsesโnot your long-term goalsโwill guide your choices.
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