Iโll never forget the first time I ran with a group of Kenyan women in 2004... The first mile was way slower than my typical run to the point where I was looking around thinking, โAre they for real? These are the fastest women in the world?โ But by mile 5 we were buzzing along, mile six I was hitting the gas, and mile seven I was hanging on for dear life.
Lauren FleshmanThe injured runner is like a recent amputee victim, continually forgetting that the limb isn't there, crestfallen at each realization. What we need more than anything is a suitable prosthetic and an attitude adjustment.
Lauren FleshmanMy sport has transformed my body to be powerful for a specific task over years of training and competition. The more tuned for competition I am, the less "feminine" I look, and it has made me feel powerful on the track but self-conscious in the sack. That transformed for me as I let go of feminine ideals of all kinds, in work, parenting, etc.
Lauren FleshmanI decided to make the life I want, and put energy into what moves me, and not rely on anyone for approval of my choices.
Lauren FleshmanI may not be the lithest, the most talented, or have the fastest time in the field, but I have passion and courage, and sometimes that is enough to do something extraordinary.
Lauren FleshmanSometimes we push ourselves. We take a workout and we use it as a way to crack open our shell, let the pain rush in and push out the stagnant wounds of the heart. Sometimes a workout sets you free.
Lauren FleshmanWhen you recognize that failing doesn't make you a failure, you give yourself permission to try all sorts of things.
Lauren FleshmanI learned a long time ago that the last thing any woman should be thinking about is being 'skinny' or 'thin.' To me, those words imply weakness, fragility, the inability to stand firm in a storm. If you want to change your body, aim for 'athletic.' An athletic body is healthy, strong, and built to thrive. An athletic body can take many shapes.
Lauren FleshmanWe can't expect to effectively move forward with half the population carrying sandbags.
Lauren FleshmanWhen you're a dreamer, heart break and failure come with the territory, but I can tell you it's worth it, because it's a way of living that is both moving and memorable.
Lauren Fleshman