Reciprocating oral sex is, in general, a very good idea!
It is so tempting to return rudeness with rudeness!
Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are.
Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about.
I hate to get gender essentialist, but I'm starting to think that a lot of married men have some sort of heterosexually induced dentistry aversion.
It's one thing to be a high achiever; it's quite another to privately sneer at your girlfriend's friends after feigning friendliness because they have the "misfortune" to drive a bus for a living.