If we ask two questions, we will see that punishment never works. First: What do we want the other person to do? Second: What do we want the other person's reasons to be for doing as we request?
Marshall B. RosenbergThe most dangerous of all behaviors may consist of doing things 'because we're supposed to.
Marshall B. RosenbergMake your goal to attend to your underlying needs and to aim for a resolution so satisfying that everyone involved has their needs met also.
Marshall B. Rosenberg