In these long-standing conflicts, I find that most cases it gets resolved in about twenty minutes after each side can tell me the needs of the other.

Analyses of others are actually expressions of our own needs and values

The first step in healing is to put the focus on what's alive now, not what happened in the past.

If we want to be compassionate we must be conscious of the words we use. We must both speak and listen from the heart.

Regardless of our many differences, we all have the same needs. What differs is the strategy for fulfilling these needs.

As soon as you say, "are you feeling X because I ..." Then the Jackal starts to salivate because he can educate the person that he's the cause of his pain.

Public education for some time has been heavily focused on what curricula we believe will be helpful to students. Life-Enriching Education is based on the premise that the relationship between teachers and students, the relationships of students with one another, and the relationships of students to what they are learning are equally important in preparing students for the future.