Every time I mess up is a chance to practice.
To practice the process of conflict resolution, we must completely abandon the goal of getting people to do what we want.
However impressed we may be with NVC concepts, it is only through practice and application that our lives are transformed.
Classifying and judging people promotes violence.
People do not hear our pain when they believe they are at fault.
If people just asked: "Here are the needs of both sides, here are the resources. What can be done to meet these needs?" the conflict would be easy to resolve.