We do not look for compromise; rather, we seek to resolve the conflict to everyone's complete satisfaction.

We can never make anyone do anything against their will without enormous consequences.

My anger tells me firstly that there's a need of mine that's not getting met.

Interpretations, criticisms, diagnoses, and judgments of others are actually alienated expressions of our unmet needs.

Analyses of others are actually expressions of our own needs and values

Clinical training in psychoanalysis has a deficit. It teaches how to sit and think about what a person is saying and how to interpret it intellectually, but not how to be fully present to this person.

Get very clear about the kind of world we would like and then start living that way.