Don't get addicted to your requests. Your objective is needs, not requests. Because then it becomes a demand.

Don't get addicted to your requests. Your objective is needs, not requests. Because then it becomes a demand.

Judgments of others contribute to self-fulfilling prophecies.

Also, think about your intentionality - are you getting lost in the method? or coming from the intentionality, the purpose? You don't want to do the mechanics without the consciousness.

Every moment each human being is doing the best we know at that moment to meet our needs. We never do anything that is not in the service of a need, there is no conflict on our planet at the level of needs. We all have the same needs. The problem is in strategies for meeting the needs.

People heal from their pain when they have an authentic connection with another human being.

Praise and reward create a system of extrinsic motivations for behavior. Children (and adults) end up taking action in order to receive the praise or rewards.