Any time you throw pain at a Jackal without a clear present request, within a millisecond he'll jump in.

This language is from the head. It is a way of mentally classifying people into varying shades of good and bad, right and wrong. Ultimately, it provokes defensiveness, resistance, and counterattack. It is a language of demands.

Understanding the other persons' needs does not mean you have to give up on your own needs.

Judgments of others contribute to self-fulfilling prophecies.

If we ask two questions, we will see that punishment never works. First: What do we want the other person to do? Second: What do we want the other person's reasons to be for doing as we request?

Never hear what a jackal-speaking person thinks, especially what they think about you.

Understanding and connection can transcend conflict.