I don't think you can have an authentic connection when one person is diagnosing the other.

The cause of anger lies in our thinking - in thoughts of blame and judgment.

Anger is a signal that you're distracted by judgmental or punitive thinking, and that some precious need of yours is being ignored.

The only time a message (label) can scare us is if we think there is such a thing, and that such a thing is a disgrace.

Don't hate the circumstance, you may miss the blessing

What all the basic religions are saying is this: Don't do anything that isn't play.

Never hear what somebody thinks about you, you'll live longer. Hear that they're in pain. Don't hear their analysis.