When we focus on clarifying what is being observed, felt, and needed rather than on diagnosing and judging, we discover the depth of our own compassion.

We need empathy to give empathy.

What all the basic religions are saying is this: Don't do anything that isn't play.

Interpretations, criticisms, diagnoses, and judgments of others are actually alienated expressions of our unmet needs.

Our goal is to create a quality of empathic connection that allows everyone's needs to be met.

Imagine connecting with the human spirit in each person in any situation at any time. Imagine interacting with others in a way that allows everyone's need to be equally valued. Imagine creating organizations and life-serving systems responsive to our needs and the needs of our environment.

Empathy gives you the ability to enjoy another person's pain.