They have most likely said it because they have an unmet need.

I find that my cultural conditioning leads me to focus attention on places where I am unlikely to get what I want. I developed NVC as a way to train my attention-to shine the light of consciousness-on places that have the potential to yield what I am seeking.

Some people use NVC to respond compassionately to themselves, some to create greater depth in their personal relationships, and still others to build effective relationships at work or in the political arena. Worldwide, NVC is used to mediate disputes and conflicts at all levels.

I never have to worry about another person's response, only how I react to what they say.

If we don't tell people about our needs, it is much less likely they will be met.

Judgments of others contribute to self-fulfilling prophecies.

The intention behind the protective use of force is to prevent injury, never to punish or to cause individuals to suffer, repent or change.