Judgments of others contribute to self-fulfilling prophecies.

Be very slow to go into looking for solutions.

Interpretations, criticisms, diagnoses, and judgments of others are actually alienated expressions of our unmet needs.

What others do may be the stimulus of our feelings, but never the cause.

In a Giraffe institution, the head nurse job would be to serve the nurses, not to control them. Teachers are there to serve the students, not control them.

When our communication supports compassionate giving and receiving, happiness replaces violence and grieving.

Instead of playing the game "Making Life Wonderful", we often play the game called "Who's Right". Do you know that game? It's a game where everybody loses.