Regardless of our many differences, we all have the same needs. What differs is the strategy for fulfilling these needs.
Intellectual understanding blocks empathy.
When we are angry, killing people is too superficial.
Use anger as a wake-up call to unmet needs.
Our goal is to create a quality of empathic connection that allows everyone's needs to be met.
The number one reason that we don't get our needs met, we don't express them. We express judgments. If we do express needs, the number two reasons we don't our needs met, we don't make clear requests.