I practice staying calm all the time, beginning with situations that aren't tense.
You can't stay well without telling--and living--the truth.
Do whatever it takes to convey your essential self.
If you're living completely on your own, break out of solitary confinement. Seek to understand others, and help them understand you
Stop trying to change your behavior; instead, rethink your beliefs
Any moment you spend attacking yourself is a moment away from your higher purpose and your power to love. Don't go there.