People don't listen to understand. They listen to reply. The collective monologue is everyone talking and no one listening.
Stephen CoveyWe see the world, not as it is, but as we areโโor, as we are conditioned to see it.
Stephen CoveyMy behavior is a product of my own conscious choices based on principles, rather than a product of my conditions, based on feelings.
Stephen CoveyMotivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.
Stephen CoveyBe a light, not a judge, be a model not a critic. Little by little, your circle of influence will explode and you will avoid the emotional metastasizing cancers of complaining, criticizing, competing, comparing and cynicism, all which reflect victimization, all of which are the opposite of being proactive.
Stephen Covey