All change is nothing but a decision. All decisions are controlled by what we link to pain and pleasure.
Tony RobbinsThe third element of success is your state: You must replace a default state of pessimism or anger with one of determination, of will, of generosity, of curiosity, of gratitude. The more we can put ourselves in such beautiful states rather than suffering states, the more they become habits of being and we end up making better decisions.
Tony Robbins