The practice of lovingkindness can uplift us & relieve sorrow & unhappiness.
So what is a good meditator? The one who meditates.
We must accept the reality that the causes of impatience travel a two-way street.
Patience has all the time it needs.
To advance spiritually requires a method of practice & determination to carry it out.
It is a powerful practice to be generous when you are the one feeling in need.