One who is patient glows with an inner radiance.
Patience is both the tool for and the result of, our efforts.
Accepting the reality of change gives rise to equanimity.
Praise & esteem can feel good, which is fine, but don't look to them for inner peace & lasting happiness.
The more we genuinely care about others the greater our own happiness & inner peace.
We all have issues and we have usually come by them honestly.