Support the type of thinking that leads you to feeling good, peaceful & happy.
To forgive does not mean to forget.
While meditating we are simply seeing what the mind has been doing all along.
Thoughts, words, emotions & deeds not coming from love are likely coming from fear.
We need never be bound by the limitations of our previous or current thinking, nor are we ever locked into being the person we used to be, or think we are.
To advance spiritually requires a method of practice & determination to carry it out.