We've all heard that in life, when one door is closed, another is opened. Unfortunately, many of us are so focused on the darkness left by what has been lost, we never see the light coming through the newly opened door.

Regardless of what is being discussed . . . the issue is never more important than the quality of the interaction.

A relationship is like life. It isn't a process of preservation, but of change and growth. Unless you grow and change together, you will change ... and grow apart.

The problem with lethargy is that doing nothing validates the fear that nothing can be done.

To influence others to change, you must be able to frame that change in terms of the future, and in a way that has value to all concerned.

If you want to change your life, you must change your mind and change your brain? on purpose.

Regardless of the problem, as long as our solution requires someone else to change, we will never know the power and promise of self-determination.