All connections are infused with dreams of what is possible in the future. Thus, when we lose something or someone important to us, we aren't just grieving the loss, we are grieving the shattered dream.

Never make your highest purpose, or the most important thing in your life something that is outside of your control.

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal while blaming our misery on the person who started the fire.

You can't fight fire with fire, or fear with fear.

Autonomy, Purpose, & Mastery: If you are having difficulty creating the life you want, chances are one or more of these are missing.

Everything that happens in our lives is "good information" about the degree to which our choices are working for us. We can, however, choose to believe that we are a victim of the world we see, and have no choices. And, of course, we will receive "good information" about this belief as well.

How do you keep people from jerking your chain? Don't give your chain to jerks!