To influence others to change, you must be able to frame that change in terms of the future, and in a way that has value to all concerned.

True 'magic' is simply the ability to transcend what seems to be and, thus, transform one's experience. Maybe we could all use a little 'Harry Potter' in our lives.

There are two ways to make someone important in our lives ... we can either love them or hate them.

Sometimes knowing what to do is knowing when to stop.

Regardless of the problem, as long as our solution requires someone else to change, we will never know the power and promise of self-determination.

Fear of feeling bad rarely makes one feel good.

Nothing destroys a relationship quicker than our fears of inadequacy and loss.