People have the absolute right to be just as unhappy and miserable as they want to be.

To truly be of service to others, we must first serve the server. The ability to bring an enlightened presence to those in need is the ability to light a candle without burning ourselves out.

Selfish is caring for ourselves at others' expense ... Self-care is taking care of ourselves so that we can be there for others.

Problems occur when we tie our peace of mind to another's state of mind.

Until we become clear about our own worth and value, we will forever be searching for it in the eyes of others.

Nothing destroys a relationship quicker than our fears of inadequacy and loss.

Autonomy, Purpose, & Mastery: If you are having difficulty creating the life you want, chances are one or more of these are missing.