A relationship is like life. It isn't a process of preservation, but of change and growth. Unless you grow and change together, you will change ... and grow apart.

All connections are infused with dreams of what is possible in the future. Thus, when we lose something or someone important to us, we aren't just grieving the loss, we are grieving the shattered dream.

Remembering the past should help you create a purposeful future, not cause you to be afraid of it.

Peace of Mind? Don't leave home (or go home) without it.

Love will keep us safe when we commit to choosing the kind of qualities, characteristics, and relationships that we would recommend to someone we love.

Holding on to painful images of the past in order to avoid painful experiences in the future serves only to color the present with pain.

Nothing destroys a relationship quicker than our fears of inadequacy and loss.