Change is the very basis of our life, not to be fought, to be welcomed and tasted, to be seen for the gift it truly is.

What seems good turns bad, what seems bad turns good. It is an endless cycle.

Relying on another is an expression of attachment, not love, a manifestation of insecurity and suffering, not understanding the true nature of our lives.

Who you are is always enough. If your partner wants something different, it does not reflect upon you, but upon their needs and fantasies.

In the Zen Way we focus upon each breath, each day, each moment and experience it totally. One complete breath brings the next.

This is how we know we are in a loving relationship. We are blooming, and the one we love is blooming as well.

All experiences are welcomed and fully digested, not judged good or bad.