All experiences are welcomed and fully digested, not judged good or bad.

When we sit, we open our own treasure house. Rather than do this, however, most of us first seek to find the treasures another person can provide. We calculate their value to us. When we approach relationships in this manner, we are coming as beggars, seeing the other as a source of supply. When we can enter a relationship with our treasure house already open, there is no end to the wonders we can find, both within and between ourselves and another.

Who you are is always enough. If your partner wants something different, it does not reflect upon you, but upon their needs and fantasies.

A time of uncertainty, of not knowing exactly where we're headed, or what kind of choice to make is a Zen moment.

Another simple and powerful way to dissolve problems is not to dwell upon the outcome of your actions. Instead, learn to value each action (no matter how small or large), to do it with complete attention. Your joy and satisfaction comes from doing each action with a whole heart and mind. Results and consequences then take care of themselves. When you are not absorbed by concern for outcomes, how much anxiety can you ever have?

Change is the very basis of our life, not to be fought, to be welcomed and tasted, to be seen for the gift it truly is.

God's guiding hand, the guiding Voice, resting lightly upon us is best felt and heard when we are silent and still.