The Golden Rule of Habit Change: You can't extinguish a bad habit, you can only change it.
Charles DuhiggIf you want to do something that requires willpower - like going for a run after work - you have to conserve your willpower muscle during the day.
Charles DuhiggThis is the real power of habit: the insight that your habits are what you choose them to be.
Charles DuhiggI think I'm smart, and I know I was a good mom. But there wasn't a lot I could point to and say, that's why I'm special.
Charles Duhigg