The problem is that your brain can't tell the difference between bad and good habits, and so if you have a bad one, it's always lurking there, waiting for the right cues and rewards.
Charles DuhiggThe Golden Rule of Habit Change: You can't extinguish a bad habit, you can only change it.
Charles DuhiggChampions donโt do extraordinary things. They do ordinary things, but they do them without thinking, too fast for the orther team to react. They follow the habits theyโve learned.
Charles DuhiggIt is facile to imply that smoking, alcoholism, overeating, or other ingrained patters can be upended without real effort. Genuine change requires work and self-understanding of the cravings driving behaviours.
Charles DuhiggA movement starts because of the social habits of friendship and the strong ties between close acquaintances. It grows because of the habits of a community, and the weak ties that hold neighborhoods and clans together. And it endures because a movement's leaders give participants new habits that create a fresh sense of identity and a feeling of ownership.
Charles Duhigg