Many of us live our lives out of the fear of what other people think of us. We're waiting for someone to give us a permission slip that tells us it's OK to be ourselves. Don't try to be fearless or pretend you aren't impacted by fear. Just try to prevent fear from making your decisions for you.
Chris GuillebeauWithout the edge, [life's] boring...If you're doing something that's definitely achievable with 100% odds of success, where's the draw in that?
Chris GuillebeauLet's embrace more of life, not less. Balanced people don't change the world, and I'd rather spend my time feeling worn out from meaningful activities and projects.
Chris GuillebeauEmbracing new things often requires us to embrace our fears, however trivial they may seem. You deal with fear not by pretending it doesn't exist, but by refusing to give it decision-making authority.
Chris GuillebeauSome people think self-employment is risky, but the real risk lies in deriving your security from an external source.
Chris GuillebeauInstead of convincing people who are opposed to your message, spend your time finding people who are already predisposed to it.
Chris GuillebeauUnreasonable," "unrealistic," and "impractical" are all words used to marginalize a person or idea that fails to conform with conventionally expected standards.
Chris GuillebeauYour possibilities are unlimited, but it all begins with the deliberate choice to think differently.
Chris GuillebeauIn the long-term, security comes from an asset you create or acquire, not a position in someone else's asset.
Chris GuillebeauIt's a lonely road for those of us who choose to be remarkable, and the path of convention can sometimes be appealing. That path is paved with safe lives, middle of the road monotony, and little chance of failure. But where's the fun in being like everyone else out there?
Chris GuillebeauDon't try to be fearless or pretend you aren't impacted by fear. Just try to prevent fear from making your decisions for you.
Chris GuillebeauWhereever you are in life, however old you are, begin thinking about every day as the first day of your life.
Chris GuillebeauIf you're worried about life-work balance, something is probably wrong with your life or your work. Instead of agonizing over balance, get excited and create change.
Chris GuillebeauOften when we ask for advice, we don't really want advice-we want someone to say "That's great! Go for it!"
Chris GuillebeauI know if I missed a day and nothing happened, then it would be much easier to miss another day. Pretty soon I wouldnโt have much of a schedule, and then I'd have less motivation. It's a downward spiral that I want to avoid, so I keep the schedule sacred.
Chris GuillebeauNever despise small beginnings, and don't belittle your own accomplishments. Remember them and use them as inspiration as you go on to the next thing. When you venture outside your comfort zone, wherever the starting point may be, it's kind of a big deal.
Chris GuillebeauRegret is what you should fear the most. If something is going to keep you awake at night, let it be the fear of not following your dream.
Chris GuillebeauTo truly live without regrets, pay attention. Ask yourself hard questions and see where they lead. Do I really want this job? Is this relationship right for me? If I could do anything, would it be what I'm doing today ... or something different?
Chris GuillebeauAlways revisit your decisions in the light of new knowledge and information. Don't be afraid to change.
Chris GuillebeauWe often feel paralyzed by choice and make no choice. But the thing is, no choice is a choice. If youโre not doing something about it, youโre doing something about it.
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