Completely desist from defending your point of view. When you have no point to defend, you do not allow the birth of an argument. If you do this consistently - if you stop fighting and resisting - you will fully experience the present, which is a gift. Someone once told me, "The past is history, the future is a mystery, and this moment is a gift. That is why this moment is called 'the present'."
Deepak ChopraNegative emotions are like unwelcome guests. Just because they show up on our doorstep doesn't mean they have a right to stay.
Deepak ChopraThe more intimately you come in contact with your own Being, the simpler things look and the easier they are to deal with.
Deepak Chopra