Don't try to steer the river.
You are not creating a new you; you are releasing a hidden you. The process is one of self discovery. The hidden you that wants to emerge is in perfect balance.
Instead of thinking outside the box, get rid of the box.
Unbounded awareness is the reservoir of possibilities.
It isn't love when another person cannot give you the space to live your own life.
The best use of imagination is creativity. The worst use of imagination is anxiety.