When you are doing things together, you are inside the collective mind, and share psychic knowledge with each other. That is how you become one.
You have to find your own tricks!
Let the skin be like water, let the flesh hang from the bones.
Every time you have a chance, go within and do your meditation.
I am only here to share my knowledge with others and to help them make rapid progress on the path of yoga.
The Spiritual Sun already blazes within.