I've so exceeded what I ever wanted to do.

I loved Lucille Ball growing up.

Forty freaked me out. I didn't see it coming. My life was in a state of chaos - I was moving jobs and moving house - and it just hit me like a ton of bricks.

Because society places a value on masculinity, gay men aspire to it. If you go to a gay club and the doorman says, 'You do realise this is a gay club, don't you lads?' you get all excited because you think, 'Wow, he thought I was straight!'

The higher your profile becomes, the more aware you are that people out there might hate you.

I always say I'd rather be miserable by myself than unhappy in a relationship.

You don't want money to make you a social freak where you can only hang out with rich people.