But he was so great!' Yes, and the people who got on the Titanic thought they were going on a vacation

Lying, cheating, hiding is the exact opposite of the behavior of a man who's really into you.

...you are defined by how you live your life, not whom you live it with, and certainly not by what you gave up to be with that person.

Drinking, eating, shopping, revenge, rebound sex, drugs or whatever your poison may be will number the pain - but that's all.

So, I play in a band. It's a really underground band. Super underground. Very underground. Like, we don't even actually play.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

He's just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he's drunk. If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impaired.