If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He wonโt keep you guessing, because heโll want to make sure you donโt get frustrated and go away.
Greg BehrendtThere's nothing wrong with sending a quick note if you're busy or just want to flirt, but it's hard to have any real interaction over text. In the buffet of communication, text messaging should be a side dish, not the entree.
Greg BehrendtIf we're friends with someone and attracted to them, we're going to want to take it further.
Greg BehrendtBut what I can do is paint you a picture of what youโll never see when youโre with a guy whoโs really into you: Youโll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. Youโll never see you ruining an evening with friends because youโre calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. Youโll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldnโt have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. Youโll be too busy being adored.
Greg Behrendt