People who are criticizing... don't really get it, because if they did, they would like it.
Gwyneth PaltrowIs it better not to drink alcohol and eat fried food and not have cheese and never have a cigarette at a party? Of course, but that's just not life.
Gwyneth PaltrowYou'll never be happy if you can't figure out that loving people is all there is. And that it's more important to love than be loved. Because that is when you feel love, by loving somebody.
Gwyneth PaltrowI find the English amazing how they got over 7/7. There were no multiple memorials with people sobbing as they would have been in America. There, they are constantly scaring people, but at the same time, people think nothing of going to see a therapist.
Gwyneth PaltrowYou know, I use organic products, but I get [laser treatments]. It's what makes life interesting, finding the balance between cigarettes and tofu.
Gwyneth PaltrowI was having such a hard time when I made Sylvia. I gave everything I had for that role. It's one or two or three things I'm most proud of in terms of my work. But it was very dark.
Gwyneth PaltrowSometimes when things you love get really commercial, you end up feeling betrayed by it.
Gwyneth PaltrowI personally believe in some sort of divine order - or energy. I do believe that everything happens for a reason. I do think that when something bad happens to someone it's with the purpose of awakening them. I do think there is some force behind that. I don't think there are accidents.
Gwyneth PaltrowFor the most part, I try to be healthy and eat good things, but if you give me a baguette and some Camembert, I'm gonna eat it.
Gwyneth PaltrowIt's so much easier to sit home and not exercise and criticize other people. What I love is inspiring people. People come up to me and say, 'I want to have two kids and wear a bathing suit and not feel terrible about myself. I see how hard you work and it makes me feel like I can do that too.'
Gwyneth PaltrowIf I have my daughter in the car and they are making me nervous, I'll do whatever I have to do. I keep a whole log. I take pictures of their cars, write down license plate numbers, everything. If they do it again, I can go to the police. I know my rights and, believe me, I will have them arrested. I will stop at nothing.
Gwyneth PaltrowI think the most clear, direct way to empowerment is to really know yourself and to really use your voice and to not be afraid of other people's reactions.
Gwyneth PaltrowMy life comes down to three moments: the death of my father, meeting my husband, and the birth of my daughter. Everything I did previous to that just doesn't seem to add up to very much.
Gwyneth PaltrowThere's a portion of the movie where something bad happens to me, and I lose my clothes along the way, so essentially I'm wearing a bra and trousers. There are certain requirements, but luckily I have a good base because I work out often.
Gwyneth PaltrowI'm never going again on Met Gala. It was so un-fun. It was boiling. It was too crowded. I did not enjoy it at all.
Gwyneth PaltrowIf I could just walk around and light the candles with my finger, that would be kind of cool.
Gwyneth PaltrowSelf - belief is everything. Whether you want to start a law firm or a jewelry business, women get pushback, societally. People will be like, "This is a bad idea." You have to have enough self-belief to see where you're gonna end up and not let anybody derail you.
Gwyneth PaltrowI wasn't the high-school play queen or anything. And my parents would let not me act until I graduated from college.
Gwyneth PaltrowI know people that I respect and admire and look up to who have had extra-marital affairs.
Gwyneth PaltrowBeauty fades! I just turned 29, so I probably don't have that many good years left in me.
Gwyneth PaltrowAs you get older, you choose friends based on not only what feels resonant and warm but if they're bringing something to your life. My women friends are incredibly intelligent. There's no posturing, no competition. Especially in Los Angeles, I see pockets of friends who are very competitive, and I think, What is the point? I would rather be alone in bed with a book than have a girlfriend who is like that.
Gwyneth PaltrowWe have always conducted our relationship privately, and we hope that as we consciously uncouple and coparent, we will be able to continue in the same manner.
Gwyneth PaltrowI'm 43 years old, and I know who I am, and I own my mistakes. They're my business. And when somebody who doesn't know me has an opinion, it's none of my business.
Gwyneth PaltrowI don't understand what people's fascination is with [our] relationship. If we're in the same city, we go out... Sometimes when I'm in L.A., I stay at his [Ben Affleck's] house. But it's not what people think. We're not together, I swear on my life.
Gwyneth PaltrowI think part of a beauty routine is how you feel and checking in with your inner self, and so I made that commitment to myself to do that.
Gwyneth PaltrowIt's a waste of time for people to say things they think other people want to hear, or try and come off in a certain way. I try to be as honest as I can.
Gwyneth PaltrowDuring the strict macrobiotic chapter of my life, I ate miso soup every day for breakfast and sometimes with dinner as well.
Gwyneth PaltrowI'm a lot more selective with work these days. My perfect plan is to do one movie every nine months. It would have to be a project that I found inspiring. It would also have to include other actors and a director I am inspired to work with.
Gwyneth PaltrowI think that the process of figuring out what kind of leader I wanted to be was challenging, because as an actor, you work alone, really.
Gwyneth PaltrowI personally think fitness is a very important part of skincare and overall health and wellness and beauty. I think that the skin is our largest organ.
Gwyneth PaltrowI think that women, especially women in my job, come to me because they know I'm very loving and nonjudgmental and I'm not competitive, and I've been through a lot.
Gwyneth PaltrowWhen I was starting out, I would get printouts of what was being written about me that week. At first it was all good things, and then it started to turn. I very quickly learned, "This isn't good, this isn't helping me." But it was a very important exercise for me in terms of really understanding that one's sense of self is internal. I have had an extreme opportunity to learn that lesson, and I think it's been such a blessed fortune.
Gwyneth PaltrowI have a sort of sisterly feeling toward him [Ben Affleck]. I want him to do well and grow up and be a happy person and a fully realized man.
Gwyneth PaltrowMy playground was the theatre. I'd sit and watch my mother pretend for a living. As a young girl, that's pretty seductive.
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