We act like a zero-sum society, when in reality there is a lot of non zero-sum fat to be skimmed off to everyone's mutual advantage.
Howard RaiffaA mediator is an impartial outsider who tries to aid the negotiators in their quest to find a compromise agreement.
Howard RaiffaMost people, even in simple risky situations, don't behave the way the theory of utility would have them behave.
Howard RaiffaAdvice: don't embarrass your bargaining partner by forcing him or her to make all the concessions.
Howard Raiffa