Be very slow to go into looking for solutions.
The cause of anger lies in our thinking - in thoughts of blame and judgment.
Any time you throw pain at a Jackal without a clear present request, within a millisecond he'll jump in.
What others do may be the stimulus of our feelings, but never the cause.
Postpone result/solution thinking until later; it's through connection that solutions materialize - empathy before education.
We are designed for Giving