Judgments of others contribute to self-fulfilling prophecies.
It's really a spiritual practice that I am trying to show as a way of life.
Keep in mind that other people's actions can never 'make' you feel any certain way. Feelings are your warning indicators.
NO is always a YES to something else.
Blaming and punishing others are superficial expressions of anger.
All moralistic judgments, whether positive or negative, are tragic expressions of unmet needs.