Don't get addicted to your requests. Your objective is needs, not requests. Because then it becomes a demand.
Marshall B. RosenbergWhen we are in contact with our feelings and needs, we humans no longer make good slaves and underlings.
Marshall B. RosenbergIn nonviolent communication, no matter what words others may use to express themselves, we simply listen for their observations, feelings, needs, and requests. Then we may wish to reflect back, paraphrasing what we have understood. We stay with empathy, allowing others the opportunity to fully express themselves before we turn our attention to solutions or requests for relief.
Marshall B. RosenbergIf people just asked: "Here are the needs of both sides, here are the resources. What can be done to meet these needs?" the conflict would be easy to resolve.
Marshall B. Rosenberg